make amends
US /mek əˈmɛndz/
・UK /meik əˈmendz/
A1 初級
v.t./i.動詞 (他動詞/自動詞)償いをする
He wanted to make amends for his behavior.
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ビウィッチド - プライドと偏見 (10/10) ムービークリップ (2005) HD (Bewitched - Pride & Prejudice (10/10) Movie CLIP (2005) HD)
- How can l ever make amends for such behavior?
そのような行為をどうやって償うことができるのでしょうか？
- How can I ever make amends for such behaviour?
リディアやジェーンにも・・・
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- For being a civilized person, I'd like to give you a chance to make amends.
私と私の家族を侮辱して これを提供してくれた これが何であれ...
- but me being a cililized person, I want to give you a chance to make ...amends. Chapish?
しかし、私はチリ化した人間なので、あなたにチャンスを与えたいのです...償いをするために。チャピッシュ？
トラウマを抱える人がやりがちな7つのこと (7 Common Things People with Trauma Do)
- A person with trauma may always feel at fault for any misfortune that happens and will try to make amends with you to avoid your rejection or ridicule.
トラウマを持つ人は、どんな不幸が起こっても常に自分に非があると感じ、拒絶されたり嘲笑されたりするのを避けるために、あなたに償いをしようとするかもしれない。
- A person with trauma may always feel at fault for any misfortune that happens and will try to make amends with you to avoid your rejection or ridicule, even if you wouldn't react that way.
トラウマを抱えた人は、導火線が短くなったり、すぐカッとなったり、気分の波が激しくなったりすることがある。
クイズ：あなたは被害者意識に囚われていませんか？（自己診断テスト） (Quiz: Are You Stuck in the Victim Mindset? (self-test for awareness))
- Or five, I take full responsibility and make amends sincerely.
二つ目は、身構えてしまうこと。
- Or five, I take full responsibility and make amends sincerely.
あるいは5、私は全責任を取り、誠心誠意償う。
有害な恥と健康的な恥の6つの兆候 (6 Signs of TOXIC Shame, NOT Healthy Shame)
- For example, if you miss a meeting, healthy shame helps you acknowledge this mistake, apologize, and make amends.
例えば、ミーティングを欠席した場合、健全な羞恥心は、そのミスを認め、謝罪し、償う助けとなる。
- For example, if you miss a meeting, healthy shame helps you acknowledge this mistake, apologize, and make amends.
例えば、ミーティングを欠席した場合、健全な羞恥心は、そのミスを認め、謝罪し、償う助けとなる。
神に許されたと感じると、謝罪する可能性が低くなることが判明 (Feeling forgiven by God can reduce the likelihood of apologizing, study finds)
- This suggests that when an individual believes they're already forgiven by God, they may feel less need to seek forgiveness or make amends directly with the person that they've harmed.
このことは、自分がすでに神から赦されていると信じている場合、自分が傷つけた相手に直接赦しを求めたり、償いをしたりする必要性をあまり感じないことを示唆している。
- This suggests that when an individual believes they're already forgiven by God, they may feel less need to seek forgiveness or make amends directly with the person that they've harmed.
その通りだよ、親友。
なぜ私たちは傷つけてきた人を愛し続けるのか (Why We Can't Stop Loving Those Who Hurt Us)
- But for others among us, this is when we begin to show our distinctive colours. Hope springs eternal. Yes, the partner may presently be somewhat disappointing, but soon they may recover. Admittedly, they have become hugely unkind in many ways, but they did apologise nicely last week, before repeating their offence, and so there is a decent chance, we believe, that things will be on an upswing over the longer term. To outside observers, the faith that we have in our partner can appear quasi-religious. Why do we keep giving our unreliable companion so much leeway? Why do we hope against hope? Why don't we cut our losses right now and leave? Why are we so convinced that with just a little more effort on our part, one more discussion, one more long email sent in the early hours, everything will alter? Furthermore, perhaps why do we keep assuming that we have done something wrong and that it is primarily our role to apologise and make amends? The explanation is that we grew into hopeful people not by choice, but of necessity. We almost certainly spent our childhoods in circumstances where we had no option but to become enormous believers in our parents and, simultaneously, enormous doubters of ourselves. When little, we couldn't afford to think that our parents were simply disappointing, wounded people with whom we shouldn't interact too much and then walk away. We were four years old. So we did what children of unfulfilling parents always do. We started to think ill of ourselves. We developed a genius for wondering what was wrong with us and for assembling complicated and overly generous explanations for the bad behaviour of others. We evolved an expectant stance towards whatever morsel of love our parent might throw our way. We became excited by deprivation. All day they might have been ill-tempered and cruel to us. Perhaps at nightfall, they might say something sweet and ruffle our hair. This became the most exciting and appalling game of our lives. As adults, we continue to be addicted to this tension. It has come to seem that this is what love is, the pain-tinged, continuous expectation that an unfulfilling person might abruptly turn round and be nice to us again. Love is waiting for someone who was once slightly kind to resume their interest. It doesn't strike us that love might actually be something quite different, simpler and less tortured. An ongoing, reliable exchange of mutually respectful sympathy and gentleness. And if it's not this, that we should leave at once. Indeed, if we have the troubled fortune to meet a reliable soul, we will probably respond to them with a feeling of nausea and bewilderment and flee in short order. Perhaps back to the last unfulfilling partner. The toll we pay in terms of wasted years is lamentable. Whereas others among us can enjoy calm, kindly relationships, we will get locked into exhausting scenarios with perturbed individuals who very subtly mess us around, who say one thing and do another, who don't give us physical affection or blow hot and cold, who may be having affairs and keep promising to change and don't. And the worst is that for all our suffering, this somehow excites us, this keeps us on our toes, this feels like what we need to keep doing. We know nothing else. We have to start to believe what our childhoods never allowed us to think. Some people need to be given up on. Certain seemingly ordinary and good people are in fact very damaged and will hurt and bully those around them. Some people with a few lovely qualities to them will, considered in the round, work an entirely negative effect on our lives. It's not our role to keep second-guessing unfulfilling people, to spin elaborate stories as to why they may be doing what they do.
しかし、私たちの中の他の人たちにとっては、この時期が私たちの特徴的な色を見せ始めるときなのだ。希望は永遠に湧いてくる。そう、今のところパートナーは多少がっかりしているかもしれないが、すぐに立ち直るかもしれない。確かに、相手は多くの点で非常に不親切になったが、先週はきちんと謝ったし、また同じことを繰り返す前に謝った。私たちのパートナーに対する信頼は、外部から見ると宗教的なものに見えるかもしれない。なぜ私たちは、頼りない伴侶にこれほど自由を与え続けるのだろうか？なぜ希望に反して希望を抱くのか？なぜ今すぐにでも
- Furthermore, perhaps why do we keep assuming that we have done something wrong and that it is primarily our role to apologise and make amends?
間違いを恐れない | 英語学習ポッドキャスト | ヒーリングポッドキャスト (It's Okay To Make Mistakes | Learn English Podcast | Healing Podcast)
- Make amends if possible, but then choose to let go of guilt.
可能であれば償いをするが、その後は罪悪感を手放すことを選択する。
- Make amends if possible, but then choose to let go of guilt.
さらに、たとえ相手の行動に同意できないとしても、相手の立場を理解しようと努めること。
ランドール、実父と対面 (Randall meets his biological father)
- Seems to me you want me to try to make amends so you can say, screw you, and storm out of here.
あなたは私に償いをさせたいようだが、そうすればあなたは、ふざけるな、と言ってここから出て行くことができる。
- Seems to me you want me to try to make amends so you can say, "Screw you," and storm out of here.
あの日のことを覚えていると言いたいところだが...。